Found this on Mystic Wicks forum and wanted to pass it on. The author is unknown.
Are you a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime?
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through A difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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All opinions stated in my posts are just that...my opinions...and should not be held in any way as the opinions of the CEPF Board of Directors or of anyone other than myself. - Rev. Heidi Andrews VP CEPF
This was told me to me by a friend about 6 months ago - and it is still one of my favorite pieces to remember. I am glad that others know of this and pass it along.
I first saw this poem on a e-mail forum and have loved it since. It is a helpful when going through times of change and moving away from your neighbors and friends. BB,Angel
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I hope that you will go out and let stories that is life happen to you and that you will work with these stories from your lifeyour life not someone elses life water them with your blood and tears and your laughter till they bloom Clarissa Estes,Ph.D.
